'Take Responsibility for YOUR OWN body, mind and spirit, for your own physical, mental and spiritual well-being." 
-Mr.C.S Haymore

You are the only one in control of your body, of your mind, your spirit and and your well being. You control yourself and everything you do. You might blame others when you do something you're not supposed to but in reality it's your fault. Blaming others won't help you at all, all it can do is worsen the situation. Many adults will tell you to do something a certain way because one its for the best and two because they want the best for you, they only do this because they love and care about you. But whatever you do after they warn you is on you. Its best to do what they say because they are right more than half of the time. Its better to do good because itll keep you out of trouble. Whatever you decide to do, make sure its itll be for the better, make sure its the right thing to do.